Would it be better if your fiance and the kid's fates were changed?.
Da-hae?.
- Hi. - Let's go out.
- Where?. - Go out and eat something good.
You need the energy.
I'm fine. Take Ji-min instead.
I especially made time for you.
So jealous...
I wish I can change my fate with theirs.
Da-hae...
The world is fine even without Sang-woo.
Isn't it?.
You'll feel better with some fresh air.
Ji-seok.
It's not like you to be weak like this. Get stronger.
Will I get stronger with fresh air?.
I'm just worried, that's all.
I thought I was going to die when the car filled up with sea water.
No matter how hard I tried to open the door, it wouldn't.
When water filled up to my head, I gave up.
But that's when the door opened.
The water inside pushed the door open.
I'm going to wait.
For what?.
Till I feel like forgiving. And become stronger.
Hey, the battery's dead!
Damn battery!
That's not our fault!
What are you doing on Christmas?.
Wanna take our girlfriends on a trip?.
- Yeah! - I don't have one.
Yeah, right! Your gal bought you this!
Let's get off!
Give me that!
It's mine now! See?. It's from his gal!
- Let me try! - No way!
Your cell phone!
You put ice in first?. Different from me...
Guess the ice won't crack and get hurt this way.
My mom called today.
It's Dad's birthday this weekend.
You should go.
Of course I said I won't.
Though your dad was mean,
you're the way you are thanks to him.
Thanks to him?.
Don't say stuff like I'm stronger thanks to him.
They're your parents. They're family, you can't hate.
Family is the worst.
Abusing your own child's the worst!
It's not abuse.
You can get a few spankings.
It probably hurt them more to do that.
You say that cuz you never had a shitty father like that!
Don't say that! He's still your father.
I can't stand hearing that the most!
Respect him no matter what just cuz he's my dad?.
You know how many times I thought of killing him!
How can you say that?. You're horrible.
A kid who says this is worse than a dad who beats her to death?.
Stop it!
You don't know how parents feel.
Oh, really?. And you do?.
Just go home on his birthday. That's what a daughter should do.
You know what?.
You sound like the people around you a year ago...
...insisting you to forgive the kid.
Hey!
Why'd you call me out?.
Just get in.
Hurry up.
Why?.
- Let's go shopping. - Do it yourself.
Aren't you sorry to Da-hae?.
Buy her something. I'll pay.
I can't stand living you!
I'm so fed up with you!
So am l! You are lousy...
It's okay, Da-hae. Everything's fine.
Be a good girl. Don't cry.
It's okay. Don't cry.
Hey, you hold this.
Why buy so much?. Having a party?.
It's Dad's birthday tomorrow.
Why bring me into this?.
You rude little.
Mom said to bring you home.
- I told her I'm not going. - Shut up.
Think you can have your way?.
All our relatives are coming.
So?.
He can brag about the girl he beat all her life?.
You wouldn't have smartened up without getting hit.
You should be thankful.
Like father like son.
Why you!
Shut up.
Our family would be quiet without you.
Then keep living quietly.
Without me.
We're taking a family picture, tomorrow!
Some family. Yeah right!
Watch it! Dad will kill ya!
I'll tell him exactly that!
Da-hae?. Where are you going?.
Nowhere.
Were you waiting for me?.
Well, I guess so.
Are you eating okay these days?.
You don't eat at home so you won't have to see me.
You noticed, huh?. I'm so hungry.
Let's go.
It's strange. I feel better when you're mad at me.
You're so unique.
It makes me nervous that we're getting close like family.
Want me to keep being mad?.
Come on.
I'm sometimes jealous of you. You're like a post-it.
- A post-it?. - Yes.
You can stick it on and off, it's still the same.
Then what are you?.
A band-aid?.
It gets dirty and you can't use it again.
Remember when we first met?.
Huh?.
Probably not. That was 7 years ago.
I remember.
You came over with Sang-woo.
You remember, too?.
You were a clever little girl. So bright, too.
I was so jealous of you back then.
My parents might've been happier if I was like you.
Maybe they wouldn't have gotten divorced.
I thought a daughter like you was a great blessing.
You were totally off.
My life was really depressing back then, too.
You only saw the outside, huh?.
It was like we're on thin ice at home.
My parents didn't get along.
They said they were living cuz of me.
I got mad, but stuck it out.
I thought if I got mad, everything will crumble.
I actually felt better after they got divorced.
I feel sorry to them and disappointed at the same time.
Maybe that's why I'm more sympathetic to parents.
I couldn't turn down the parents begging to forgive their son.
Feeling sorry for them, I couldn't see the pain I was feeling.
We have something in common.
We turned out bad cuz of our parents!
Na, na, na, na, boo, boo!
Long time no see! I missed you so much!
Eat lots.
Yes! Can I eat this first?.
Slow down, you'll choke.
I'm going to eat lots!
Don't spill. I'll do it. Check the message.
Thanks.
What is it?.
'l got your gift. Since you're sorry, Daddy will forgive you. '
'Be a good girl from now on. '
You gave him a gift?. That's great.
What's wrong?.
Why aren't you coming?. All the relatives are here.
Who did it! Was it you, Mom?.
What are you talking about?.
Why would I get Dad a gift?. You think I'm crazy!
I don't know.
Ji-seok brought it. I thought it was from you.
Then, put him on!
What's with you?. Why's that important?. Hurry home.
Everyone's here to congratulate your school acceptance.
Your father's in a good mood.
How can you do that, Mom!
You're here!
You're all dead!
Open up!
That brat! Stop it!
- I'll get you all! - Stop!
- Don't! Come here! - Let go!
What's so wrong with that?.
It's to make him happy on his birthday. What's so wrong?.
Why do you only think of yourself?. Who cares who got the gift!
You don't care how messed up I get.
You don't care about me!
You're not messed up.
Why turn me into the bad one asking for forgiveness?.
It's better this way.
And your father will be happy.
What about how I feel!
It's cuz of you, Dad never changes!
Why should he?. You should!
You're always the one causing trouble!
Shit! I'm going to end things once and for all!
I'll tell everyone everything!
Let go!
Go. Get out!
I almost died yesterday cuz of your crap!
Go die, for all I care!
Stressed about going to study abroad?.
You've gotten a lot worse than before.
Why?.
The more you push off the transplant, the better.
So take good care of your kidney.
What if I don't get a transplant?.
A dialysis is worse.
Do I have to get a transplant?.
Not if you want to die. Your call.
Your father's the only one with the same blood type.
But he's old.
Does he have high blood pressure or heart problems?.
Test for a donor match before you go.
It'll be too late to do it later.
Get all your family to test just in case.
Want me to tell them?.
No, I'll do it.
Your father has to come.
How do you feel?. Shouldn't you go to the hospital?.
I didn't call home. I thought I'd ask you first.
Don't.
Okay...
Let's eat. You didn't even have lunch.
Later. Help me up?.
If I can be born again, I want to be your daughter.
Whoa. I decline.
Ji-min, did your condition get worse?.
Are you taking your medication?.
I'll get beaten to death before I die of kidney failure.
Even if I do die, I want to without them knowing.
I don't want to stay their family even in death.
Looks like you've gained your strength.
Actually, I'm always worried.
That I don't know I'm being bad and hate my parents for no reason.
Still, when they hit me my blood curls.
I know.
Don't think about anything and just rest.
- Da-hae?. - Yes?.
- I'm sorry. - About what?.
About what happened to Sang-woo cuz of me.
Why's it cuz of you?.
If I didn't go out that night...
I went to get Ji-seok without knowing Sang-woo's coming.
If I didn't go...
Sang-woo would've met him and not get in that accident.
I'm so sorry, Da-hae.
It's been hurting you that much?.
But it's not your fault. Not at all.
Ji-min?.
Why are you up so early?.
I'm all better thanks to you.
The sky, the sun, and the clouds...
The most precious things in the world are free.
Can you take my bike out for walks, too?.
You already do that.
When I ride it, my heart and the wind become one.
When I'm angry, the wind is rough.
When I smile, the wind chimes.
You sound like a poet.
Hey, it's true.
Bong-soon~!
Pets resemble their owner's personality.
I guess.
People are different according to who raises them.
I'm never going to hit my kids.
I hate that my dad's blood will flow in my kids' too.
I want to squeeze out all my blood and put in a new one.
Maybe that's why my kidney's broken.
Don't let your father be the center of your life.
What?.
It's cuz you hate him so much.
Don't hate him. Just don't think about it.
It's possible if he's not family.
That kid... He stabbed his mother before the accident.
But his parents didn't report him and let it pass.
When did you find out?.
Recently.
If I knew earlier, would I have written the petition?.
When he tried to kill his mother?.
It's not your fault he killed someone after killing Sang-woo.
It's probably cuz of his parents.
What?. That's crazy.
He tried to kill his mother.
He killed others cuz he hated his parents that much.
Then why didn't he kill his...
It's not cuz of his parents.
It's harder to kill your parents than someone else
Look at me.
I want to, too. But I couldn't yet.
Ji-min!
Still, you'd never kill anyone!
You don't kill cuz you hate your parents!
Instead...
I'm killing myself.
What's this?.
You rude bitch! No respect for your parents!
A paternity test?.
What's with you?. You did this while you're out?.
Don't you get why I did it?.
How dare you talk like that!
For the last time, tell me!
Why do you only beat me!
You bitch!
It's cuz you do things to deserve it.
Why can't you listen like your brother?.
Dad hits me when he's in a bad mood.
He always takes things out on me!
Why you little bitch!
What's your problem, Dad?.
Tell me. Then maybe I can understand you.
What! How dare she try to blame things on me!
It's time she gets a beating.
What's with you today!
I wish there was a reason. So I can hate you less!
Beg for forgiveness! Hurry!
You know why I did the paternity test?.
Cuz I wanted to forgive you two!
You little bitch!
If you hit me cuz I'm not your kid, I thought I could forgive!
But you're my real parents! Do you know how I feel?.
Fine! You're not my daughter from now on as you wish!
Know why my kidney's bad?. It's cuz of you two!
You bitch!
It's cuz of your damn anger! Don't blame it on us!
I only want one thing! An apology from you two.
If you do, I'll forgive you for everything! An apology!
What?. How dare you! You think we're a joke?.
I forgave my daughter's murderer.
But I want him to get the death sentence.
That's odd.
I didn't think you'd want to interview me.
Ah... I wanted to hear both sides.
I see.
Sister Sophia...
Though you forgave you want him to be punished?.
He should pay for his crime.
That's not forgiveness, is it?.
Then, what is forgiveness?.
Wanting my daughter's killer to be happier than me?.
People pressured me to forgive.
Like I'm the bad one for not forgiving.
People aren't interested in the victim's family.
They probably said bad things cuz I didn't hug Sister Maria then.
It's not cuz I hated her.
I just thought of the victim's family that her son hurt.
I don't have the right to forgive him.
That's someone else's right.
How would I feel if someone else hugs and forgives my girl's killer?.
Do you hear news on him?.
I wondered if he regrets it or not.
Sister Mary said he accepted Christ.
He must've repented.
That's what I thought.
So, I thought he'd pray for my girl.
But he asked for a reduced sentence.
If he was really sorry, he couldn't do that.
I should be the one to ask for a reduced sentence, not him.
He only thought of himself for 10 years.
Forgetting everything.
But they say those on death row die every morning.
Desperately hoping to live another day.
My daughter probably felt that before she died.
That he'd change his mind...
And desperately hoping someone would come and save her.
She was our only child.
My husband and I got divorced.
We tortured each other in our anger towards him.
Is the man who killed my daughter more miserable than us?.
Beautiful, isn't it?.
Pardon?.
If my daughter was here, she'd smile.
There are many beautiful things in this world.
If we didn't know that cuz of our anger...
We'd be sorry to those who desperately wanted to live.
Forgiveness is not getting rid of hatred.
That's impossible.
It's pushing hatred far back in the corner of your heart.
Don't rush it.
It takes a lot of time.
Only you know how long it'll take.
What the hell is she thinking?.
Always so selfish.
What will change if Ji-min comes back?.
What?.
You knew how hard it was for Ji-min, didn't you?.
Then why didn't you protect her?.
From what?.
She does things to deserve it.
To be beaten?. What did she do so wrong?.
You don't know cuz you're not family.
She's always been trouble.
And you've always been a coward.
What?.
If you didn't call him out that night...
...my fiance wouldn't have died.
Why bring that up?.
Why'd you hide that you called Ji-min to get you, too?.
I didn't hide it. I just didn't say it.
Cuz it would just hurt you.
Don't you feel sorry to Sang-woo?.
I didn't think that would happen.
If I did, would I have called him?.
It hurt me, too!
How much?.
As much as Sang-woo?. Or me?.
Ji-min even felt more sorry than you.
It's me.
I'm okay. I'm on the bus.
Really?. Ji-min came?. That's good.
I have my umbrella. Take your time and drive carefully.
Thanks. I love you, too.
Let us remember those we've hurt and
ask and receive God's forgiveness.
Let us pray.
Father?.
Yes, Sister Clara?.
That's it?.
Shouldn't we go and apologize?.
We're easily forgiven if we just pray?.
Then why don't you forgive others as you've been easily forgiven?.
PRlEST'S OFFlCE
Jesus asked God to forgive His enemies
before He died on the cross.
He asked even in that desperate moment...
Cuz without the victim's forgiveness God can't forgive?.
Sister, let's go inside.
Shouldn't sinners realize their sins?.
Then why should I forgive a killer who doesn't know his sin?.
Sister Clara!
- Did you come for a visit?. - Yes.
You came early. May I have your lD?.
Of course.
- Is this your first time here?. - Yes.
What's your relation to him?.
Strangers are not allowed here.
I heard it's possible to visit...
Only family, teachers, and clergy allowed.
- Pardon?. - Go back, ma'am.
Wait! I have to meet him.
That's the rule, ma'am.
I... I'm family of the victim.
The victim's side is restricted from meeting the offenders here.
I even wrote a petition for him.
Why can't I meet him?.
The juvenile offender's rights come first by law.
It'll be hard on the young boy to meet the victim's family.
Please cooperate for Tae-ho's rehabilitation.
When is he getting out?.
That's private information.
But he may get out early according to his or his family's will.
Can you tell him to call me when he gets out?.
I want to forgive him right.
And not hate him for life.
Please don't interrupt Tae-ho's rehabilitation.
Please help him forget the past and start fresh.
Happy birthday.
Open it when you can understand me.
I'll call you dear, only till today.
I'm sorry for all the things I said.
Since I couldn't get angry at the boy who killed Sang-woo...
I took it out on you.
I knew you're in pain, but pretended I didn't know.
I'm sorry.
We have a 10 year history together.
No matter what, right?.
So let's stay good friends.
Happy birthday.
Ji-min?. Is that you?.
I was so worried about you.
Are you okay?.
Hey, I can't breathe.
I'm sorry Ji-min. And thank you.
For what?.
Everything.
- Da-hae?. - What?.
- Da-hae... - Why?.
I'm so happy to see you.
Are you feeling okay?.
I was so stupid.
Silly, you realized that now?.
I'm so glad you're here for me.
Don't waste time sitting blankly at the bus stop.
And stop hiding in the house when it rains.
But I still feel so sorry to Sang-woo.
And I regret it so much.
If I knew that was the end, I would've told him I loved him.
But I couldn't do anything.
If I took his last call, maybe Sang-woo wouldn't be...
How do you think Sang-woo would feel knowing you're like this?.
Is that all you're going to talk about when you meet him?.
You're right.
You've grown so much, Ji-min.
Da-hae... I lied to you.
I said I came to expose your forgiveness wasn't real.
That's a lie.
I wanted to learn to forgive from you.
Cuz I wanted to forgive Dad.
So I hoped that boy changed.
Hoping Dad will change if I just forgave him.
I need Dad's kidney for a transplant.
But I can't take it hating him.
Ji-min...
If I took out the hatred for my parents on others like the boy...
I wouldn't have gotten sick.
Then others would've gotten hurt, right?.
You think I did the right thing?.
Hurting myself was probably better, right?.
Ji-min...
I'm sleepy.
Okay. Rest.
Everything's so trivial from afar...
From space, all the quarrels on Earth will seem cute, right?.
I want to pet Earth...
Don't worry, Da-hae.
I'm not going to be in pain anymore.
Cuz I gave up on my parents.
Let's be real sisters next time.
Thank you.
Ji-min...
Jl-MlN'S BlRTHDA Y
You've made it through the past year well. I'm so proud.
But I feel like I ran with my eyes closed.
Take heart.
This film will give great courage
to so many people.
To who?. The offenders?.
I had the freedom not to forgive, but no one taught me that.
My hasty forgiveness was fake.
It's like putting a band-aid on a cancerous spot.
I can't forgive myself for that.
When this is complete, you'll realize why God gave you the pain.
I'm going to make a film for those
who need forgiveness to watch.
Then my pain will have meaning.
I want to meet the boy.
Can he realize how terrible it was without seeing my pain?.
How he took away someone's life...
Does he know how many people he hurt for life?.
Is it okay as long as he starts fresh not knowing what he did?.
KlM Tae-ho...
Try to love yourself now.
Love yourself instead of the love you wanted from your parents.
Then...
You'll know how precious my fiance and the friend were...
How big of a loss their lives were...
I knew it. I chose a good one, right?.
So?. Was it romantic?.
What are you thinking?.
You asked that the first day we started dating. Right here.
I practiced that so much. I was so nervous.
Really?.
I knew right then we'd be married.
Really. It happened, didn't it?.
And?.
That I'll always be with you. Like today.
Today's the next day the person who died yesterday desperately wanted.
Let's live each day to the fullest.
Like today.
I'M OKA Y DON'T WORRY ABOUT ME
I LOVE YOU, TOO.
SENDlNG MESSAGE TO HAN SANG-WOO